Showing posts with label wedding disasters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding disasters. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Wedding Disaster: Missing Wedding Cake

The title of this blog applies to situations where the cake doesn't get delivered, didn't get ordered, or gets damaged before it arrives at the venue.

The last situation happened to my clients just three hours before they were supposed to cut their cake. Their three tiered wedding cake fell on the floor during delivery - all three tiers were damaged. At this time, the other vendors at the wedding looked at me and asked "What are you going to do now hot shot wedding planner?" After saying a couple of times a word that rhymes with duck, I pulled myself together and thought of several options. Here are some of the options I came up with:

1. Check with your pastry chef to see if they have other cakes they can provide you. If your wedding is on Saturday, they might be able to give you a cake they have prepared for a Sunday wedding. At this time, it is best on to be picky about flavors or style of cake. Assess what is more important to you - less than desirable cake or no cake.

 Anna Elizabeth Cakes

2. See if your venue can help out. Likely they have a pastry chef that can wipe something up. If you are having your reception at a restaurant or golf course, this option should be the easiest for you. Once again you will have to assess the situation - $$$$ cake or no cake. (Some venues will likely not overcharge you for the cake.)

 Cotton and Crumbs

3. Call another cake company to see if they can help out. If your own cake company doesn't have a cake to spare, call another cake company. They might be able to help you out. In this case, if you have a wedding planner, he/she will likely call his/her peeps for an emergency cake call out. No worries. Leave it with your wedding planner.

 Yummy Cupcakes and Cakes 

4. Borrow a fake cake and buy a sheet cake from Costco. I only suggest this option if having a visually stunning cake is really important to you. If so, consider this option before your wedding and find out where you can rent a cake last minute.

 Cotton and Crumbs

5. Forget about the cake - likely your guests would not notice. If your guests do ask about a cake, either tell them that you didn't want a cake or ask them if they are still hungry. (Only do the latter to the guests you don't really like. But then again, why are they even at your wedding in the first place?)

 Gateaux Inc

For my clients, I went with option #1. I gave the cake company an extra five hours to come up with a cake. I told my clients that we were not going to cut the cake before the reception because we are running late and their guests are likely hungry. We will cut the cake after dinner reception. I didn't tell my clients until the day after to which the groom said: "I thought the cake flavor was different and not what I ordered!" All in all, it worked out.

Hope these suggestions help calm your nerves if you are worried about your missing wedding cake on your wedding day. Of course, I hope this doesn't happen to you!!

~Monica Hui
Owner, Lead Planner and Designer
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Saturday, June 22, 2013

Has the Alberta Flood Affected Your Wedding?

A little bit of heart to heart first: I have lived in Calgary all my life. I am one of the few people that was born and raised in Calgary. (People are usually surprised when I tell them. Not sure why?) The flooding in Calgary was shocking to me. I remember seeing pictures and videos of floods in China, Japan, and the US. But this time, the flood is in my hometown and I recognize the places. Although, I am sadden a lot of people suffered from this event, I am thankful for all the emergency personnel that assisted with evacuating people from their homes to safety.

Saddledome flooding in Calgary, 2013
Photo Credit: Global News

As I was watching the news and checking twitter for updates, it dawned on me that some brides might be getting married this weekend! If you are one of these brides and is currently stressing over your wedding, don't sweat it. There is no way you could have predicted mother nature would (could?) threaten your wedding day.

Here are some coping tips: If your venue is waterlogged, just reschedule your wedding. It gives you even more time to make your wedding favors just perfect. Plus, more of your guests will be able to attend and be happy for you. (They might be victims of the flood.) If some of your vendors can't show up (cause they are also victims of the flood), remember vendors are just hired to enhance your wedding. Your wedding can go on without some of us. Now, if your marriage commissioner can't make it, just say your vows to each other in front of your guests and sign the papers later. Enjoy your wedding day even if it wasn't what you imagined, make the best of it and get married! Don't sweat the small (wedding) details and focus on marrying your sole mate.


Photo Credit: Wedding Photo Gallery

Calgarians have BIG hearts, including the ones in the wedding industry. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Stay safe and dry everyone!

~Monica
Owner and Lead Designer @Wishahmon

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