1. You have no idea if the picture of the gown is what you are actually getting;
2. You can't tell the quality of the fabric or construction of the gown;
3. You can't tell if the gown will work on you or fit, (and risk spending a lot of money on alterations);
4. You will be screwed if it doesn't arrive for your wedding;
5. You lose out on an opportunity to "say yes to the dress" in front of your family and girlfriends.
If my FIVE reasons hasn't changed your mind and you are determined to find your dream gown online, here are some tips:
1. Know Your Body
We all have different body shapes, so you should always begin by knowing how your bust, waist, and hips are in proportion with each other. That way, you can easily eliminate silhouettes, necklines, and waistlines that don't flatter your figure, no matter how pretty they look on the model. Know your measurements and be honest. Even if you plan on losing weight, do not assume you will lose inches in all the places you want.
2. Do Your Research
Go to actual wedding boutiques to try on gowns that might work for you. You want to eliminate specific styles of gowns that don't work for your body and find those that do. Pay attention to the size of wedding gowns you are trying. Although each designer is different, you will get a sense of what size you are. (Regardless of your wedding gown "size", just remember it is only a number.) Last thing, pay attention and understand different fabrics. Some tug a little bit more and some has more or less give.
3. Understand Your Purchase
Read the gown description carefully. Make sure the gown in the picture is what you are actually getting. Look at all the pictures available. Don't just look at the front and back of the gown. Look also at the zippers/corset back, train, neckline, etc.
Pay attention to exactly what you are getting and when your gown is expected to arrive. Some dresses ship immediately. Others will take several months to ship. Learn where your gown is coming from. There may be higher shipping costs and you might have to pay for custom fees.
If the gown doesn't work out, make sure you know what their policy when it comes to canceling your dress order and/or returning it. Some sites will allow you to return the dress if you're not satisfied with how it fits. Many sites will charge a restocking fee, which is a common practice. And others, especially those offering made to order gowns, will not accept returns.
4. Have a Great Seamstress
Every gown purchase will need to be altered in some way, even if it is a custom made gown. Don't freak out and find a great seamstress to help you out. Make sure you hire a professional and don't put the pressure onto your Aunt Maria. It is not fair to her. A great seamstress will be able to make sure you look 100% on your wedding day.
If you bought your gown online, please drop me a line or leave me a comment! I would love to hear how it went! Maybe you can change my mind! (I'm not really that against online wedding gown shopping. I just haven't heard enough great stories yet!)
~Monica
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Photo Credits: Laura Gordon Photography Sareh Nouri 2014 Collection
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